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About Byron

You MATTER! Find out more from Byron Watts an internationally published Author, Speaker and LifeShift Coach™ created LifeShift Academy™ after he identified the systems to give you Power and Freedom in your life, moving from overwhelmed, stuck or mediocre to Bigger and Better! These are the proprietary proven systems that Byron Watts used to successfully recover from numerous struggles in his life, relationships and business. As a former Fortune 5 employee with a family, kids in college and all the normal obligations, he ended up unemployed, divorced, homeless and alone.  The systems Byron Watts used to recover resulted in several fundamental LifeShifts™ in how he approaches life, sees struggles, relates to others and thrives through challenges. With help from Byron Watts and LifeShift Academy™, these systems will Unlock Your Potential and make you Thrive too! A Personal Note From Byron Watts I discovered that every trial, every struggle, every tragedy and every adversity comes with an equal or greater BLESSING. If you wallow in the struggle, that is all you will see.  Life is amazing.  The key is gratitude. A cheerful heart is very good; like medicine.  Discover how a LifeShift™ can make a very significant difference in your life! “When you're in a paradigm shift, you need a LifeShift™.” — Byron Watts Do you have a friend, colleague or associate, who has undergone a massive transformation in their life?  Or, have you watched shows on television like Extreme Makeover or The Biggest Loser?  These shows prove that transformation can happen very quickly. Perhaps you reached the age, like Byron Watts did, where finding another job gets harder.  You probably know someone who is overwhelmed, feeling stuck, frustrated with settling for mediocre; who know they must take steps to get to Bigger and Better in their life but they don't know how to get started! If this excites you, you need to know that we have proven, proprietary systems that help those who encounter a life or career crisis Take The Next Big Step.  With expert advice, connection and assistance focusing on those struggling with overwhelming obstacles and possible addictions, you too can get to Bigger and Better! Your FIRST big step is to call our International Office at 832-592-7853 or visit www.TakeTheNextBigStep.com NOW!  Get your Free copy of our Action Guide!  Bigger and Better We Can Do It Together™!   Byron Watts Words “You can change what you are and where you are, by changing what goes on in your head.” — Byron Watts   “Taking The Next Big Step Requires a Like-Minded Buddy.  The Buddy System is Essential!” — Byron Watts

Mindlessness

Be aware of your unconscious decisions

“Mindlessness is often the root of self destruction.”  — Jillian Michaels

Become aware of your unconscious decisions.  These are very often directly connected to your Blind Spots.  Once you have an awareness of how you respond and react to others and to things that happen in your life; once you are aware of your unconscious choices, you can direct your choices and your intentions to focus clearly on your goals and the future you really want.
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Self Talk

Self Talk Is Dangerous.

In a previous entry I mentioned Head Trash that keeps most people stuck.  You know — the words you hear in your head that remind you about all your faults fears and failures.  The voice – let’s call it self talk.  The messages you automatically say to yourself when something happens.

  • I knew you couldn’t…
  • You always screw things up…
  • Who do you think you are…?
  • You will never get it right…

One person I heard who has it really bad continually repeated,   Continue reading Self Talk Is Dangerous.

The Beginning of Lifestyle Design

 

The other day I accepted a challenge to write myself a letter in the future.  The letter was intended to “Fire Your Boss” which is a very interesting prospect when you realize how quickly the job market is adjusting from the Industrial Age infrastructure we were taught to expect to…something else.  So many people are losing their jobs and being forced to either get creative, or settle for subsidies that make us soft and needy and weak.

The beginning of Lifestyle Design is to determine what we really want….  It is impossible to work toward a goal that is not clearly defined.

So, the first point of Lifestyle Design is:

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Head Trash

One of the most fascinating things is how we all end up dealing with Head Trash.  You know, the messages you tell yourself that often seem to tell you that things won’t go well for you.  Perhaps the messages say that you shouldn’t take any risks because you will probably lose.

Do you have anything like that going on in your head?

Sometimes we call them tapes.  The messages that we replay over an over again.

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The Crazy Dance

Working Together Living LIfe Together
There are many reasons that things happen.  People respond or react to trauma and situations they experience in life.  We each respond differently, but we see patterns that are common.  One of the great losses and a side effect brought on by the strong independent woman is that men are no longer needed, or allowed to protect her and provide for her needs and the needs of the family.  Another great loss is the loss of the loving and nurturing mother and wife.

This article is not about the causes that brought about that relationship breakdown.  Abuses of power, self-centeredness, and simple indifference for some families have caused great pain and trauma.  We cover more relationship issues and ways to improve them in other LifeShift Academy™ articles and resources.

Having a growing healthy relationship with anyone requires Continue reading The Crazy Dance